Nov. 20 marks International Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR), a solemn day dedicated to honoring transgender individuals lost to anti-transgender violence. Established in 1999 by advocate Gwendolyn Ann Smith to memorialize Rita Hester, a transgender woman murdered in 1998, TDOR raises awareness of the violence faced by the transgender community.
Smith emphasized the importance of remembrance, stating, “It is vitally important that those we lose are remembered, and that we continue to fight for justice.”
Reality of anti—transgender violence
Transgender individuals identify with a gender different from the one assigned at birth. Tragically, the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) reports that 33 transgender people were victims of violent deaths in 2022. The HRC further notes that these victims were disproportionately young, Black, and often killed by someone they knew. Guns were involved in most of these incidents.
The challenges faced by transgender individuals extend beyond violence. The UCLA School of Law reports that 42% of transgender adults have attempted suicide, highlighting the urgent need for support and advocacy.
UIS: A safe space for all
At the University of Illinois Springfield (UIS), the Office of Gender and Sexuality Services (GSS) provides resources and support for students of all genders and sexual orientations. As part of the Diversity Center under the Student Affairs division, GSS offers gender-inclusive housing, workshops, peer education programs, and social events.
“Here at UIS, there are many programs, events, and services,” said Dre Duvendack, GSS Program Coordinator. “We offer education, advocacy, support, mentorship, social opportunities, and a welcoming space for LGBTQIA+ UIS students and those with marginalized gender and sexual identities.”
Duvendack also highlighted two signature programs:
– LGBTea Socials: Weekly gatherings fostering community.
– Fluidity: A confidential weekly support group.
How to be a trans ally
The GSS provides five actionable steps for UIS students to support transgender peers:
- Accept people’s right to define their gender.
- Respect their gender identities.
- Challenge anti-trans and sexist remarks.
- Listen to transgender stories to gain understanding.
- Declare your allyship and explain why.
These actions promote an inclusive environment and send a clear message against bigotry. Listening to and learning from transgender individuals fosters understanding and builds a supportive community.
Reflecting and acting
As UIS observes Transgender Day of Remembrance, it’s an opportunity for students to reflect on the struggles of the transgender community and honor those lost to violence. More importantly, it is a call to action—to be active allies and create a campus culture of acceptance and respect.
For more information on events and resources, visit the GSS page on Gender & Sexuality Student Services.
